Hourglass

Defined waist, bust and hips in natural proportion, shoulders and hips roughly equal in width.

Every style guide tells the hourglass that everything works on her, which is both true and useless. What actually works is any silhouette that acknowledges the waist, because the waist is where this shape’s power lives. Christian Dior understood this in 1947 when he built the New Look around precisely this architecture, and the women who wore those clothes described walking into rooms differently. That shift is not vanity. It is the physical experience of alignment between who you are and how you appear.

• The mistake hourglass shapes consistently make is hiding the waist in oversized silhouettes out of a misplaced sense that emphasizing a figure is immodest. Cate Blanchett, whose precise choices on every red carpet are studied by stylists globally, has described her approach as always working with rather than against her body’s natural architecture. The result is that she looks entirely herself every time. That is the goal.

The Complete Formula

By Dress Code

• Black Tie: Column gown or mermaid in silk charmeuse or crepe, statement earring, strappy sandal. The mermaid silhouette was designed for this frame and black tie is the occasion that earns it.
• Black Tie Optional: Fitted wrap midi in a rich jewel tone, or a floor-length A-line; both are correct; the dress code allows either length.
• Cocktail: Wrap dress at knee to midi, or a sleeveless sheath with a waist seam. Anything that closes at the natural waist works without further analysis.
• Garden / Semi-Formal: Floral wrap dress, fitted midi in cotton-silk blend, or a sundress with waist ties. A wedge or block heel for outdoor comfort without sacrificing elegance.
• Casual / Destination: Wrap sundress, fitted maxi with a tie waist, espadrille wedge. The casual code does not mean shapeless; it means relaxed with intention.

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Hitch Hack Tip — Hourglass

A thin belt worn at the exact natural waist (not the hip, the waist) over a wrap dress or A-line transforms a good outfit into a great one. Jennifer Lopez has worn some version of this combination at every non-red-carpet elegant event for two decades. It is not dated. It is correct. The belt does not need to be expensive. It needs to be at the right height.

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Pear

Hips wider than shoulders, defined waist, narrower upper body. The most common shape among American women and the most consistently misguided by generic fashion advice.

Here is the thing nobody says clearly enough: the goal of dressing a pear shape is not to hide the hips. The goal is to create visual proportion. These are not the same instruction. Hiding implies shame. Proportion is artistry. The women who dress this shape most brilliantly are the ones who understand that a stunning top half draws the eye upward not as a trick but as a design decision, the same principle a great painter uses when directing your gaze with light.

Style editor and fashion psychologist Stacy London has noted in interviews that pear-shaped women are the demographic most let down by off-the-rack fashion, because most garments are sampled on an inverted triangle figure. The pattern adjustments that would make a dress flatter a pear often are never made. Which means the formula has to be more deliberate, more considered, more yours. That is not a disadvantage. It is the beginning of genuine personal style.

The Upper Body Strategy: Where the Work Happens

Bold necklines, interesting sleeves, statement jewelry, bright color or print concentrated on top: these are the tools. A wide boat neck, an off-the-shoulder, flutter sleeves, a patterned bodice with a clean solid skirt below. Each of these draws the eye up and across, adding visual width at the shoulder to balance the wider hip.

• The counterintuitive truth is this: the bolder the top half, the more balanced the overall proportion reads. Dark-on-dark below, minimal jewelry, covered up on top sends the eye directly to the area with the most contrast, which is the hip. A bright neckline, a statement earring, an interesting sleeve: these redirect attention before the eye ever reaches the lower half. This is not camouflage. This is composition.

The Complete Formula

By Dress Code

• Black Tie: Empire waist gown in chiffon or silk with an embellished or structured bodice, floor length, strappy nude sandal, chandelier earrings. The embellishment on the bodice is not decorative. It is the strategy. It places visual weight at the top of the dress where you need it.
• Black Tie Optional: Fit-and-flare gown or cocktail dress in a deep jewel tone; off-shoulder or wide neckline with a full or A-line skirt; one substantial earring as the focal point. A wide-neck gown in burgundy with a full chiffon skirt and chandelier earring is one of the strongest looks any pear shape can wear to a formal wedding.
• Cocktail: A-line wrap dress with print or texture concentrated in the bodice, solid or quieter skirt below; or a fit-and-flare in a rich solid with an off-shoulder neckline. The wrap dress is the pear shape’s most reliable cocktail weapon because it creates an empire-adjacent waist, flows past the hip, and offers a V-neckline that draws the eye upward.
• Garden / Semi-Formal: Off-shoulder floral midi in georgette or chiffon; empire-waist floral with a wide ruffle neckline; a sundress with significant shoulder detail and a soft skirt. Floral at full scale works here because the outdoor setting absorbs the pattern. Let the print be on top, lighter and brighter, and darker or smaller in the skirt.
• Casual: Off-shoulder sundress in a solid bright or warm color; flat sandal in nude; simple gold earring. The simplest formula works best at this code.
• Destination / Beach Formal: Linen or cotton-blend empire wrap in coral, terracotta, or deep turquoise, with a wide neckline; flat strappy sandal; simple shell or hammered gold earring.

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Hitch Hack Tip — Pear

Own one pair of pointed-toe nude pumps in your exact skin tone and wear them to every wedding until they disintegrate. Environmental psychologist Sally Augustin has documented that visual lines created by clothing and footwear measurably alter how observers perceive a figure’s proportions. A nude pointed pump in the wearer’s skin tone creates an unbroken line from hemline to toe, extending the visual leg length substantially. The shoe is not a detail. It is a structural decision. Buy the right one.

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Inverted Triangle

Broader shoulders than hips, strong upper body, narrower lower half. The shape the fashion industry historically designs toward, which creates a specific and counterintuitive set of problems.

The runway sample size is made for this shape, which means the silhouettes that are easiest to find off the rack are often the ones that least flatter it in real life. V-necks that already narrow the shoulder area further, column gowns that emphasize the shoulder-to-hip contrast, sleeveless cuts that put the widest line of the body on display without any counterbalancing movement below. The strategic direction is clear: soften and narrow the visual impression at the shoulder; build volume and width at the hip and leg.

The most elegant reference for this frame is Audrey Hepburn in Funny Face and Sabrina: clean at the top, architectural and full at the skirt, a silhouette that used the strong shoulder as a foundation and then created deliberate softness and movement below it. The shoulder is not the problem. The balance below it is the solution.

The Complete Formula

By Dress Code

• Black Tie: Ballgown or full-skirted floor-length gown in organza, silk, or taffeta; V-neck or halter bodice, clean at the top; a long pendant necklace through the neckline. Audrey Hepburn in the dress Givenchy made for Sabrina remains the gold-standard reference for this formula at formal occasions.
• Black Tie Optional: Fit-and-flare midi in a jewel tone; V-neck or halter; full skirt with a clean bodice. A long drop earring as the statement piece.
• Cocktail: A-line wrap dress with a V-neckline and a full skirt, or a fit-and-flare with gathering at the hip and a simple draped top. Let the skirt do the work.
• Garden / Semi-Formal: Floral full-skirted dress with a cowl or V-neck; tiered floral midi with a fitted draped bodice; a wedge sandal adds lower-body visual weight and garden-appropriate comfort.
• Casual / Destination: A sundress with a gathered skirt and a simple V or halter top; flat sandal with ankle detail; minimal jewelry at the shoulder level.

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Avoid

• Boat neck and wide portrait collar (widens the already-wide shoulder line)
• Cold-shoulder cuts (add width at the shoulder seam with a horizontal gap that emphasizes the breadth)
• Cap sleeves that end at the outer shoulder point (the widest possible sleeve position for this shape)
• Straight column silhouettes in stiff fabric with no skirt volume (emphasizes the shoulder-to-hip ratio)
• Very wide statement earrings (add horizontal width at face level)

Hitch Hack Tip — Inverted Triangle

Look for dresses with a single horizontal seam, ruching, or texture detail placed exactly at the hipline. This is what Zendaya’s stylist Law Roach does architecturally in almost every formal appearance: a garment element at the hip zone creates the visual presence of a fuller hip without volume in the skirt. One seam in the right place is worth three inches of gathering. Ask a tailor to add it if your perfect dress is otherwise missing it.

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Rectangle

Shoulders, waist, and hips roughly equal in width; a straight, even silhouette with minimal natural waist definition. The most adaptable of the nine shapes.

The rectangle is the shape with the most wardrobe freedom, because almost any silhouette that creates the suggestion of a waist reads well on this frame. The strategic direction is one thing: create the illusion of curves at the waist, and occasionally at the hip. Ines de la Fressange, who has been photographed in variations of the same belted or wrapped silhouette for forty years, is the living argument that the rectangle body dressed with intention reads as more elegant than almost any other shape. The belt is the rectangle’s most powerful tool. The wrap is the second.

The Complete Formula

By Dress Code

• Black Tie: Column gown with ruching or draping at the waist; a sleek sheath with a satin belt; or an A-line gown belted at the natural waist. Any of these reads beautifully.
• Black Tie Optional: A fitted midi with a ruched or gathered waist; a wrap gown in rich fabric; a wide-leg jumpsuit with a defined waist in silk or crepe.
• Cocktail: The wrap dress is the rectangle shape’s best cocktail formula: creates waist definition instantly, requires no belting strategy, and works in any fabric. Fit-and-flare is equally strong.
• Garden / Semi-Formal: Belted floral midi, tiered maxi with a fitted and gathered bodice, or any silhouette with a waist detail. The garden setting rewards color and print; use them freely.
• Casual / Destination: Wrap sundress with a tie belt, a maxi with a ruched or gathered midsection, an easy sundress in a bright solid.

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Avoid

• Straight sack dresses with no waist interest (makes the even silhouette read as shapeless)
• Dropped-waist silhouettes that sit at the hip (lowers the waist seam below where definition could be created)
• Boxy, oversized cuts with no defining element (the one shape type that actually needs the waist acknowledged)

Hitch Hack Tip — Rectangle

Adam Galinsky’s research at Columbia Business School on enclothed cognition found that wearing clothing associated with a specific identity produces measurable changes in how the wearer thinks and behaves. The rectangle body dressed in a deliberately waist-defined silhouette does not just look different. It moves differently. The belt is not styling shorthand. It is a cognitive shift. Put it on three inches higher than feels right. That is the waist. Wear it there.

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Apple

Fuller midsection, typically with slimmer legs, a beautiful décolletage, and less defined waist. Weight and fullness concentrated through the middle.

Every styling guide that tells an apple shape to “minimize the middle” is giving her the wrong instruction. The word minimize implies reduction, which implies something to be apologized for. What actually serves this shape is distraction from the midsection and definition above it, combined with elongation through verticality. The difference is philosophical and it changes everything about how you dress and how you feel in what you are wearing.

• The apple shape’s greatest assets are frequently glorious legs and a beautiful décolletage. Both are underused. The Regency silhouette, which empire-waisted everything from 1795 to 1820, was invented specifically for the structural reality that many women carry fullness through the midsection and the most elegant solution is a seam just below the bust and a flowing skirt below it. Jane Austen lived in these dresses. They were not a compromise. They were the height of elegance.

The Complete Formula

By Dress Code

• Black Tie: Empire gown in flowing silk or chiffon, V-neckline with a long pendant, strappy heeled sandal, chandelier earrings. Floor length with a beautiful deep V and long pendant necklace is one of the most elegant looks an apple shape can produce at a formal event.
• Black Tie Optional: Empire waist cocktail dress with an embellished or interesting bodice, or a V-neck wrap in silk; confident hemline showing the legs.
• Cocktail: Empire-waist wrap dress with a V-neckline, or an A-line from the bust in a rich solid or botanical print. The bodice should be interesting; let the skirt be simple and fluid.
• Garden / Semi-Formal: Floral empire-waist midi or wrap dress in georgette or chiffon; show the legs; soft neutral sandal. Full-scale floral at this code level is completely appropriate and uses the print concentration to draw the eye to the bodice where you want it.
• Casual / Destination: Wrap sundress with a V or scoop neck; flat sandal in a warm neutral; simple hoop earring and a pendant that sits in the neckline.

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Avoid

• Empire waists that are placed at the true natural waist rather than just below the bust (defeats the purpose entirely)
• Very thick, structured fabric through the midsection (adds bulk)
• Long belted silhouettes where the belt sits at the fullest midsection point
• Horizontal details, wide ruffle trim, or embellishment at the waist or hip line
• Very clingy jersey that maps the midsection

Hitch Hack Tip — Apple

A V-neckline with a long pendant necklace hanging inside the V creates a double vertical line through the center of the body: the V itself and the pendant chain below it. The eye follows both. It is impossible to look at the midsection when two strong lines are directing attention elsewhere. This is not optical illusion. It is composition, the same principle every portrait photographer uses when directing where to look in a frame. Use it deliberately.

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Oval

Fullness distributed evenly through the torso; shoulders and hips roughly equal or close in width, midsection fuller than both. Similar to apple with greater symmetry.

The oval and apple shapes share most of their best strategies, with one meaningful difference: the oval’s more even shoulder-to-hip ratio opens up a wider range of neckline options and makes some structural shoulder details more available than they are for the narrower-shouldered apple frame. The oval can experiment more freely with wide necklines and even modest structured shoulders because the visual width at the top does not create a proportional imbalance. Everything the apple does, the oval does with slightly more latitude.

The Complete Formula

By Dress Code

• Black Tie: Empire gown in flowing silk or matte chiffon over full lining; wide portrait collar or deep V; monochromatic from gown to shoe; long pendant inside the neckline
• Cocktail: Trapeze or A-line-from-bust midi in rich solid; a wide neckline with ruched detail at the bodice; a monochromatic shoe
• Garden: Floral empire or wrap midi in chiffon over full lining; wide boat neck or portrait collar; wedge sandal in nude or natural tone; soft botanical earring
• Casual: Flowing maxi in a warm botanical solid or soft print; wide neckline; flat sandal in the dress’s tone

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Avoid

• Shiny or metallic fabric through the midsection (reflects and enlarges visually)
• Unlined chiffon in bright light (becomes transparent over a fuller figure)
• Very stiff structured fabric over the full torso (adds bulk)
• Dark dress with a contrasting bright shoe (breaks the monochromatic vertical line)

Hitch Hack Tip — Oval

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Athletic

Toned, muscular build with defined shoulders, strong arms and legs, minimal waist-to-hip differential. Shares structure with the rectangle but with visible muscle definition.

The athletic shape brings one specific styling consideration the rectangle does not: fabric that clings to visible muscle definition can read as athletic wear rather than formalwear, regardless of its actual price point. The formula uses soft, flowing fabric below to create a deliberate and beautiful counterpoint to the strong, defined upper body. Amal Clooney, who has an athletic build, consistently chooses strong shoulders paired with soft flowing skirts: the upper body’s architecture is celebrated as a structural foundation, and the skirt’s movement creates a feminine counterpoint that reads as intentional rather than compensatory.

There is nothing to hide here. The strong arms, the defined shoulders, the visible fitness: these are worth showing. The question is only how to balance them with softness below so that the whole reads as dressed rather than athletic.

The Complete Formula

By Dress Code

• Black Tie: Off-shoulder gown with a full organza or chiffon skirt; clean bodice; single statement earring. This is the look Zendaya in her most architectural Law Roach moments gestures toward: strong at the top, deliberately soft and full below, one piece of jewelry that is the final decision.
• Black Tie Optional: One-shoulder fit-and-flare in a rich jewel tone; or off-shoulder with a full gathered skirt; strappy sandal; drop earring.
• Cocktail: Wide-neck wrap dress with an A-line skirt; fit-and-flare with a real flare; one-shoulder midi. The athletic frame can wear everything here with confidence.
• Garden: Wide-neck floral maxi in chiffon or georgette; flutter sleeve or sleeveless showing the collarbone; flat sandal or wedge; the garden aesthetic rewards exactly the soft-draping-over-strong-frame contrast this shape creates naturally.
• Casual / Destination: Off-shoulder sundress with a full or tiered skirt; flat sandal; simple gold jewelry.

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Hitch Hack Tip — Athletic

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Petite

Under 5’4″. Any body shape, scaled smaller. Proportion rules apply regardless of which of the other shapes you identify with, overlaid on top of your shape’s formula.

Petite is not a shape in the silhouette sense. It is a proportional overlay that sits on top of whichever of the other eight shapes you are. The fundamental challenge of petite dressing is that standard sizing was designed on a 5’7″ body, which means that almost everything is slightly too long, waist seams sit at the hip rather than the waist, sleeve lengths extend past the wrist, and patterns designed to be subtle read as overwhelming at full scale on a smaller frame. These are not unfixable problems. They require one habit: read your shape’s formula above and then apply the petite overlay below.

• Petite proportion dressing is the adjustment of not just hemline length but all seam placement, pattern scale, collar and neckline size, and accessory scale to fit a figure under 5’4″, because standard sizing built on a 5’7″ sample distorts every element of a garment’s intended proportion. Because a midi dress on a 5’7″ frame lands gracefully at the calf; on a 5’2″ frame it sweeps the floor and changes the dress’s entire character, formality level, and visual effect. For complete petite shopping guidance, Hitch Hack’s petite guide maps every category.

The Petite Proportion Overlay

By Dress Code — Petite

• Black Tie: A floor-length column or A-line in petite sizing, or standard sizing tailored to exact hemline. Avoid ballgown volume: excessive skirt fullness at formal events can overwhelm a petite frame and reads as costume rather than gown. Clean and elongated is the direction.
• Cocktail: A knee-length A-line or sheath reads perfectly at this code level and lands at the right hemline on a petite frame without tailoring. Above the knee also works at cocktail code and reads as chic rather than casual on this frame.
• Garden / Semi-Formal: A tea-length or carefully chosen midi in petite sizing; a small-scale floral print in knee length; a wrap dress that hits at the knee rather than the ankle.
• Casual / Destination: A sundress at knee length or just above; espadrille wedge for discreet and comfortable height; a small-scale print or solid in a warm tone.

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Hitch Hack Tip — Petite

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Plus Size

Size 14 and above, in any of the body shape categories above. The most underserved readership in fashion editorial, and the one who most deserves specific, honest, and complete guidance.

Let’s do something most wedding style guides do not do: start with honesty. Plus size women are told to “dress to flatter” as if flattering means appearing smaller, and as if smaller is always the goal. It is not. The goal is to walk into a wedding feeling radiantly, completely like yourself: chosen rather than managed, dressed rather than camouflaged, visible in the way you actually want to be visible.

Brené Brown’s twenty years of research at the University of Houston found that the experience of being seen in one’s body is one of the most vulnerable acts of human life. To arrive at a celebration feeling gorgeous rather than apologetic is not a trivial aspiration. It is everything. This section gives you the formula to make it happen at every dress code, every season, and every body shape subcategory you identify with.

“Being dressed is not the same as being dressed well. The plus size guest who knows her formula walks in feeling like herself. That ease is visible to everyone in the room. It reads as confidence because it is.”

First: identify your shape from the eight categories above. You may be a plus size hourglass, a plus size pear, a plus size inverted triangle. The shape formula still applies. What follows here is the overlay of fabric, construction, proportion, and practical knowledge that applies specifically to plus size dressing, on top of whatever your shape’s formula already says.

The Fabric Foundation: This Is Where Everything Begins

Fabric quality matters more on a plus size body than on any other, because cheaper fabrics in larger cuts lose structure and drape at a rate that smaller cuts do not reveal. This is not a moral statement about quality. It is a construction reality. A dress that costs $40 in a size 6 can look entirely different in a size 18 in the same polyester because the fabric’s structural limits become visible at scale.

The Complete Formula: Silhouette, Neckline, Detail

By Dress Code — Plus Size

• Black Tie: An A-line gown in matte silk or crepe, or an empire gown with an embellished bodice, floor-length with a deep V or sweetheart neckline. This is the category where plus size formalwear has genuinely improved in 2026. Brands including Eloquii, Nordstrom’s extended formal sizes, Universal Standard, Torrid’s formal line, and Rent the Runway’s plus size gown selection (sizes 14 to 24) offer real gown options in quality fabric. Do not settle for what is easy to find at midnight online. These dresses are worth searching for. You deserve a gown that was designed for this event, not adapted from a different one.
• Black Tie Optional: Fit-and-flare in deep jewel tone with a V-neckline and a full skirt in matte fabric; or a wide-leg jumpsuit in matte crepe or silk if you are comfortable in trousers at formal occasions. A well-constructed jumpsuit in the right fabric is now accepted at this code level across most American wedding venues.
• Cocktail: The wrap dress in matte jersey or chiffon over full lining at knee to midi length is the most reliable plus size cocktail formula available. It creates waist definition, flows past the hip, offers a flattering V-neckline, and works in any color or print. If you own one excellent wrap dress in a quality fabric, you can attend every cocktail-code wedding of the next decade in complete confidence.
• Garden / Semi-Formal: Empire-waist floral midi in chiffon over full lining; A-line in cotton-blend; a maxi with a V-neck and flutter sleeve. This is the code that welcomes color and print most generously. Wear the dress that makes you feel like a painting. The garden setting can absorb a full-scale botanical print, a rich warm solid, a deep jewel tone in a flowing fabric: all of these are correct and all of them photograph beautifully outdoors.
• Casual / Destination: A beautiful sundress at whatever length makes you feel most like yourself. A maxi with a V-neck and a wrap detail at the waist. A bright solid in soft jersey. At this code level, the formula loosens and the priority is simply: what makes you want to walk in?
• Destination / Beach Formal: Linen-blend empire or A-line in a warm tone, fully lined for coverage, flat sandal for comfort and stability. Avoid polyester blends in heat: they do not breathe and the visual effect changes dramatically in humid outdoor settings with photographs.

The Color Strategy: Retiring the Dark-Color Rule

The received wisdom is always the same: wear dark colors. They slim. They are safe. They are appropriate. This advice peaked in 1998 and it is time to let it go entirely.

Dark colors can be elegant, appropriate, and beautiful. They are also the reason so many plus size women arrive at summer garden weddings feeling invisible while everyone else is in coral and sage. The color that works is the one that makes your skin luminous in the specific light of the specific venue, that makes your face light up when you see yourself in the mirror. That color is not always dark. Often it is the one you were afraid to wear.

What is genuinely true and worth using: monochromatic head-to-toe dressing creates a clean vertical axis that elongates the perceived figure more effectively than any dark color alone. A head-to-toe dusty rose in the right matte fabric reads as more elegant, more elongated, and more intentional than dark navy broken by a contrasting shoe. That is not a consolation. That is a style fact.

Hair at a Wedding: Plus Size Considerations

• Volume at the crown: Adds height to the overall visual silhouette; a flat hairstyle on a fuller frame creates downward visual pressure without upward counterbalance
• Updo: Shows the neck, collarbone, and décolletage, which are frequently the most beautiful visible assets on a plus size frame; opens space for statement earrings
• Half-up with crown volume: The most versatile option; elegant enough for black tie, romantic for garden, appropriate everywhere without effort
• Natural texture: Any natural style worn with intention and care is complete and correct at every code level; the standard is care, not straightness
• Avoid: Hairstyles that add significant horizontal width without any height (very flat, very wide side-swept styles shorten the visual figure)

The 2026 Shopping Reality

The plus size formalwear market has genuinely improved, though not as quickly as it should have. In 2026, Rent the Runway stocks a substantial portion of its formal inventory in sizes 14 to 24, which means wearing a designer gown to a black tie wedding is within reach without a designer budget. Universal Standard, Eloquii, Torrid’s formal line, Anthropologie’s extended sizes, and Nordstrom’s dedicated extended gown selection have all expanded their formal offerings. ASOS Curve continues to be one of the most reliable sources for trend-forward formalwear in extended sizes.

Worth knowing: measure yourself before shopping online. Not the size you were two years ago. The measurements you have today. Plus size sizing varies significantly between brands and even between garment categories within the same brand. An accurate bust, waist, and hip measurement and the brand’s specific size chart will save you more styling heartache than any other single decision in this process.

Hitch Hack Tip — Plus Size

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